Softness is Not Selfish
You chose yourself. Now what?
Softness Is Not Selfish is a healing companion for Black women navigating the raw, sacred terrain of heartbreak—and the guilt that often comes with choosing peace over performance.
This isn't just another breakup guide. It’s a soul-deep invitation to return to your body, your boundaries, and your birthright to rest, grieve, and rise—on your terms. Through storytelling, spiritual tools, and radical reflection, this 70+ page guide will walk you through what it means to truly reclaim yourself after loving someone who couldn't meet you where you stood.
Inside you’ll find:
💔 Powerful insight into why breakups feel heavier for Black women
🌿 Rituals and self-care practices to soothe your spirit
🪞 Prompts and tools to release guilt, shame, and old identities
🖤 A trauma-informed breakdown of the Strong Black Woman script
🧘🏾♀️ Access to my SACRED Pause™ framework—a step-by-step path to emotional liberation and spiritual rest
✨ An affirmation library, soothing toolbox, and grief-friendly journaling space
This guide is your permission slip to pause—and proof that healing isn’t a detour. It’s your destiny.
You chose yourself. Now what?
Softness Is Not Selfish is a healing companion for Black women navigating the raw, sacred terrain of heartbreak—and the guilt that often comes with choosing peace over performance.
This isn't just another breakup guide. It’s a soul-deep invitation to return to your body, your boundaries, and your birthright to rest, grieve, and rise—on your terms. Through storytelling, spiritual tools, and radical reflection, this 70+ page guide will walk you through what it means to truly reclaim yourself after loving someone who couldn't meet you where you stood.
Inside you’ll find:
💔 Powerful insight into why breakups feel heavier for Black women
🌿 Rituals and self-care practices to soothe your spirit
🪞 Prompts and tools to release guilt, shame, and old identities
🖤 A trauma-informed breakdown of the Strong Black Woman script
🧘🏾♀️ Access to my SACRED Pause™ framework—a step-by-step path to emotional liberation and spiritual rest
✨ An affirmation library, soothing toolbox, and grief-friendly journaling space
This guide is your permission slip to pause—and proof that healing isn’t a detour. It’s your destiny.
You chose yourself. Now what?
Softness Is Not Selfish is a healing companion for Black women navigating the raw, sacred terrain of heartbreak—and the guilt that often comes with choosing peace over performance.
This isn't just another breakup guide. It’s a soul-deep invitation to return to your body, your boundaries, and your birthright to rest, grieve, and rise—on your terms. Through storytelling, spiritual tools, and radical reflection, this 70+ page guide will walk you through what it means to truly reclaim yourself after loving someone who couldn't meet you where you stood.
Inside you’ll find:
💔 Powerful insight into why breakups feel heavier for Black women
🌿 Rituals and self-care practices to soothe your spirit
🪞 Prompts and tools to release guilt, shame, and old identities
🖤 A trauma-informed breakdown of the Strong Black Woman script
🧘🏾♀️ Access to my SACRED Pause™ framework—a step-by-step path to emotional liberation and spiritual rest
✨ An affirmation library, soothing toolbox, and grief-friendly journaling space
This guide is your permission slip to pause—and proof that healing isn’t a detour. It’s your destiny.